A Matter of Self-belief!

Being courageous is judged when the odds are against you, when there is a lot that dares you forget to even try. Courage has to do with being hopeful and this is required when facing a challenge.

Today’s affirmation is that; “ I am Bold, I believe in myself." This is what being courageous entail, boldness. Over the past few years, I have been committed to developing my self-efficacy through pursuing positive tasks. The main investment that has helped shape me to the person I am today, is of spiritual growth. Being spiritual has helped me gain confidence in being myself, for the glory of the Lord and not what society expects of me. And it is now manifesting a winning attitude because I know I am not alone, wherever I go and with whatever I aspire to achieve.

With Scriptures such as 2 Timothy 1:7/ 1 Corinthians 16:13/ Deuteronomy 31:6-8 and Psalm 31:24, amongst others, I have found that my confidence is growing day in and out, no matter how dark my days become. No matter how hopeless my situation, I seem to be having that gritty vibe to endure. It is not an overnight thing. It is a conscientious matter. I am being intentional about growth, Self-Care, self-motivation and self-love. All this has to do with my faith in the Lord’s Love for me.

When committing to being a better person through building on Self-awareness started, I thought I needed to be brave and do big things. Lately, I am finding that my self-efficacy has to do with finding the strength to wake up and make the bed. Simple tasks like literally brushing my teeth and finding the courage to make family dinner, after a long day, that is where my Self-belief is growing. It is getting the guts to dance on a heavy day, managing to post an inspirational message every now and then, or basically choose to be present and enjoy watching a bird minding it’s business in my yard. Being courageous for me looks like keeping up with maintaining my small garden and having time to put on make-up with no outing on the cards. Keeping up with my kids for two(2) hours without shouting has been something that makes me feel my way to a resolve in situations is improving. I honestly have been getting along with myself better by focusing on random small things such as those mentioned. This is why I feel I believe in myself, because I value small achievements. Every small task completed is a win for me.

If you follow me on social media, you will have noticed how I seem to love expressing myself and probably a bit too open about my struggles, while just as well joyful about my gifts. This is because I truly believe that in all that I am, greatness can emerge. I believe in myself and work towards making my dreams come true, patiently. When I say patiently, I mean I recognize the work required and respect time. I do not do well with wanting to impress. I do well with small but significant Self-Care Investments. I value mistakes and lessons they bring. This is why I always talk about being a rough diamond. My affirmations this month are about this.

I felt that, for those of you out there, putting way too much pressure on yourselves wanting to be it and get it, first get being self-aware right. Get being patient with yourself. Be Grateful for what you already have first. Embrace your imperfections and value that you are a work in progress. Your capabilities can use Self-Truth. You can truly develop your self-belief through investing in yourself with matters of Self-care and awareness. It is surely working for me.

“Trust yourself. Create the kind of self that you will be happy to live with all your life. Make the most of yourself by fanning the tiny, inner Sparks of possibility into flames of achievement. “ – Golda Meir(The Iron Lady)

Investing in yourself is as good as believing in yourself. Pray for yourself. Try your best at being courageous enough to love and care for yourself as much as possible and see how much more confident you become. This all because You Matter!

Regards

LT